On the raising of hats

As a collector of curious books, some years ago I bought a second-hand copy of The Pocket Book of Etiquette edited by Carlton Wallace (Evans Brothers Ltd, London, 1956; cover price five shillings (25p)).

Much of the advice is still sound, especially those parts about treating others with kindness and consideration. Some of it, however, is so outdated that it is almost comical. Consider the following strictures, given under the heading Personal behaviour and the sub-heading Gentlemen:

On meeting any lady in any public or private place, the rule is that the first approach should always be left to the lady. If the lady shows recognition and the gentleman is wearing a hat, he must raise it. He does not offer to shake hands; but will shake hands if the lady wishes it.

Whenever one is in company with others and a hat is being worn, the hat must be raised when one of the others is—

a lady to whom another gentleman raises his hat; and

a gentleman who raises his hat to any other person, whether that person is known personally or not.

The hat may be raised to any other gentleman who is elderly, a senior, or of special distinction, and must always be raised in response to a salute from anyone wearing uniform.

The hat should also be raised to small girls, whether walking alone or with males. In this case the gentleman makes the first approach.

It is not necessary to stand with the head uncovered when talking to a lady in the open, but it is usual to do so if the conversation is held in any public place under cover (e.g. a shop).

Whenever any circumstances have arisen which call for the raising and immediate replacement of the hat, and there has been a pause for conversation, the hat is always raised again at parting.
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When the hat is raised, it is lifted from the head for perhaps six inches or so, replaced after about a second or after shaking hands. When it is removed, it is lifted from the head and held by the side at the length of the arm. The left hand is used where possible, leaving the right free for shaking hands.

I was aged six when this book was published. It is sobering for me to realise quite how much England has changed: and not always for the better.